Relationship

One of my friend asked me, in fact questioned me about Relationships. She asked why boys are less understanding and why sometimes they do not feel the same what girl feels. Why it is that the girls expect more than boys do. Last few days I was trying to think of relationships of not only lovers but also of family and friends. Apart from blood relations what makes a relationship stronger is Attachment and Bonding. Every one thinks different and has different perspective towards life. You find your life partner, your soul mate however do not try to make assumption of thinking her or him as ditto like you. He or she should complete you rather than replicate you. To understand other’s prospective it is first important to shed your ego, behave rationally and always keep in mind that human do make mistakes or other people can also be saying right. The base of any relationship is the willingness to listen to others and trust on their judgments. It holds good for every relationship. Here I do not want to compare and outcast similarities and differences between boys and girls thinking in a relationship still I would like to state a very important point. “Next time you find a fault with some of your friend think of his or her qualities, the negative feeling will go away and you will be able to embrace him or her”. Life is just some thousands of weekends only; please do not waste it. How many times it has happened to you that you have first ruined a planned and later realized that your anger and frustration was useless. You should feel proud that there is someone special who loves you so much so instead of living Black and White live a colorful life with your loved ones. Enjoy and live every moment before these colors get fade. So nest time if you have a turf with your beloved don’t wait for him or her to say something to you, go and just tell her what is your love for her or him. Think of your good moments together. Believe me it will help. Think life as a present and try to enjoy it in present. It will be wonderful always then.